As a topless waiter or a performer of any kind for that matter, you need a way to break the ice with your spectators to give them permission to feel comfortable with your presence. There are lots of guide lines to achieve this as a topless waiter as I have written about in my blog but I would say that games are the easiest way to do this. Fun hens party games, if delivered correctly, give the ladies a proper introduction to your personality and sets the tone for the rest of you time at the party. The Men of Desire have been trained to identify, match and amplify the energy at any event with various hen’s party games. Some generic and some invented by me.